Story by Monique


My nameís Monique and Iím 21, Iíve experienced DP/DR in one form or another
since I was about 14 but in the cruelest form since I was about 17.

I guess my story starts a few years before I had smoked marijuana. I had
always experienced depression, especially in my first year of high school,
and I would feel like the speed of my heart would slow down so much that the
world wouldnít really be connected to me anymore. This was a very unnerving
experience but I always felt a sense of awe about being that detached, if
not just a little bit creeped out.
    I had smoked marijuana before hand and quite enjoyed the experience, I had
a sensation of the smoke burning the inside of my lungs but everything kind
of had a pleasantness about it when I was stoned. In January of 2003, a few
days after ingesting mushrooms and having a brilliantly orgasmic trip, I
went out with a few of my friends to have a last laugh before school
started. I wasnít eighteen at this time (legal drinking age) so we decided
to stay in and smoke a ton of weed.

Itís really difficult to say how much we really smoked because I have a
memory of my friend constantly reloading the bowl with weed and seemingly
breathing in nothing but pot until I felt dizzy. I started to twitch
uncontrollably like I was having a seizure but I felt like I was almost
paralyzed from being so intoxicated. My friend came into the room to ask me
if I was going to go to get pizza with them and I looked at her face when
the most hellish moment of my life happened.
    It seemed as though time had slowed down to a complete stop and was
restarting unbearably slow. Her face spun before me forever until the world
gathered back together for an instant, long enough for me to express my
utter fear in what I had just experienced, and then stopped again for
another forever-moment. I darted out of the room and outside (which actually
occurred in the time frame of about thirty seconds, but felt like at least
an hour), went to unlock my car door but dropped my keys in the snow.
    When they finally convinced me not to drive home they brought me back up to
the dorm room where I immediately started going into excessive feelings of
depersonalization and derealization. In traumatic experiences people tend to
detach from reality but I detached so much that I started to believe that
what I was experiencing was a nightmare that I couldnít wake up from. I
looked in the mirror and started screaming that ďIím real, Iím real, Iím
real!Ē trying to hold on to reality but I would inadvertently start feeling
like I was dreaming again.

I was embarrassed because my parents came to get me and take me to the
hospital. I admitted all of my past drug use to them and they made the
entire experience a lot more unpleasant. The doctor gave me a strong
sedative but I couldnít seem to fall asleep. At one point I started to fade
out into a calm stupor while the world spun and it felt like I was in that
state for hundreds of years when it was only a moment (I am not
exaggerating, it really felt like whole lifetimes). I finally passed out and
woke up in my bed at home the next morning.
    Oddly enough, I decided I was okay to go to school even though I was still
high. Time was still awfully slow so I was sitting in my 2.5 hour, boring,
early world history class when I started having the beginning of the worst
series of panic attacks in my life.

For about two years I was convinced I was in a coma and this was a dream
world because I was constantly in a severe state of
depersonalization/derealization from that one drug experience. Now a days I
guess Iíve gotten used to it and learned not to panic. Thereís much more to
this story than just the drugs but I donít want to make this too long.

Thank You,



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